In her new historical fiction novel, “Night Bird Calling,” award-winning author Cathy Gohlke explores how you can find a sense of belonging in unexpected places.
We all want to feel like we belong, to be part of a community that’s bigger than ourselves. But sometimes, finding our place, especially in new or uncomfortable situations, can be quite challenging. Here are five steps to help you navigate this journey:
1. Ask Questions
Start by asking questions to understand the vision and goals of the community you want to join. Collaborate with others to figure out what’s needed, what might be missing, and how you can help meet those needs and move towards the group’s objectives.
2. Consider Your Own Gifts and Resources
Think about what unique talents and resources you have that can benefit the community. Get involved personally, but also help others connect and contribute in areas where you might not be an expert.
3. Encourage
Keep an open heart and an open hand, and always listen. Avoid gossiping. Every community has its highs and lows, successes and setbacks. The goal is to build the community slowly but surely. Positive reinforcement helps, while negativity can tear everything down.
4. Celebrate Achievements
Take time to celebrate both individual and group achievements. Support those who are struggling by being there for them. Recognizing successes and offering comfort during tough times strengthens bonds and helps build a cohesive group.
5. Persist
Don’t expect to find immediate belonging and acceptance; it’s a gradual process. Building relationships and community is like a dance—it’s a learning process that requires patience, focus, and determination. Once you find your rhythm, it becomes a joyful experience.
Stepping out of our comfort zones to find a sense of belonging can be daunting. It often requires learning new skills and ways of thinking. However, these efforts can lead to the development of new relationships and broadened horizons, bringing unexpected joy.
Official Synopsis of “Night Bird Calling”
Cathy Gohlke, known for her impactful historical fiction, sets “Night Bird Calling” in rural Appalachia on the brink of WWII. The story follows Lilliana Swope, who escapes her abusive husband after her mother’s death and seeks refuge with her great-aunt Hyacinth in No Creek, North Carolina. Together, they dream of reviving Hyacinth’s estate and creating a public library open to everyone, regardless of race.
In No Creek, Lilliana forms bonds with locals like the spirited Celia Percy, kind Reverend Jesse Willard, and Ruby Lynne Wishon, a woman with dangerous secrets. The Klan’s opposition to their library plans brings new threats, intertwining Lilliana’s past and present struggles.
As war looms both nationally and locally, Lilliana must confront harsh realities to bring about meaningful change.
About the Author
Cathy Gohlke, a multi-award-winning author, writes inspirational historical novels that showcase how people overcome adversity through faith. She splits her time between northern Virginia and the Jersey Shore, enjoying her family when not researching historic sites.
For more information on “Night Bird Calling,” visit Cathy Gohlke’s website.
